my new obsession~

gorgeous isn't she? :)

it's has been quite sometime..

it's has been quite sometime..that we have gotong royong @ office
it's has been quite sometime..that we had a birthday celebration for the staff
it's has been quite sometime..i heard of The Carpenters
it's has been quite sometime..that i missed adik2 debat~
it's has been quite sometime..i'm updating this blog
it's has been quite sometime..i had a free time like this~

CT@Office~

Adab meminang

Riwayat: Muslim

Hadith: 

Dari Ibnu Umar RA katanya, Nabi SAW bersabda: "Jangan kamu beli barang yang sedang ditawar oleh saudaramu; jangan kamu pinang wanita yang sedang dipinang saudaramu, melainkan apabila telah diizinkannya."

Huraian Hadith: 

1. Khitbah (Bahasa Arab) /'bertunang' (Bahasa melayu) adalah muqaddimah atau permulaan kepada az-zawaj (Bahasa Arab) / nikah atau kahwin (Bahasa Melayu).
2. Allah menjadikan khitbah sebagai salah satu dari syariat-syariat / perundangan-perundangan dalam Islam. Hikmahnya adalah untuk memberi peluang berkenal-kenalan dengan pasangan masing-masing sebelum bernikah atau berkahwin.
3. Hukum khitbah adalah 'harus' tetapi mengikut Imam As-Syafie (sila rujuk buku Mughni Almuhtaj) mengatakan hukumnya adalah al-istihbab / sunat. . Dan Dr. Abd. Karim Zaidan (sila rujuk buku Almufassal fi Ahkam Al Mar'ah mengatakan bahawa hukumnya adalah sunat iaitu lebih  utama dari hukum harus tadi.
4. Khitbah adalah dilarang bagi seseorang wanita yang telah dipinang oleh orang lain. Begitu juga dilarang membeli barang yang sedang dalam urusan jual beli orang lain. Hal ini adalah untuk menjaga kehormatan dan mengelak daripada berlaku perebutan dan pergaduhan selain daripada menjaga keharmonian dalam kehidupan bermasyarakat. 

KRU - Ganas

ganas bebeno~

Disuruh diri aku berdiri
Disuruh duduk aku pun duduk
Setia tunduk pada arah telunjuk…
Itu aku

Kerana cinta aku menghamba
Mengejar hasrat hatimu damba
Arahkan saja mengikut kehendakmu…itu kamu
Hingga…

Mata tak terpejam
Mencari apa yang kau mahu
Tapi mulut ku berdiam
Tak mahu bergaduh

Baik… telinga dengar saja
Semua perintah ku junjung
Biar… hati calar-balar tetap bersabar
Ganasnya cintamu

Kau mahu itu aku begitu
Kau mahu ini ku pun begini
Jangan melawan nanti hukumannya bermuncung…itu aku

Kerana cinta aku menghamba
Mengejar hasrat hatimu damba
Arahkan saja mengikut kehendakmu…
Itu kamu
Hingga…

Mata tak terpejam
Mencari apa yang kau mahu
Tapi mulut ku berdiam
Tak mahu bergaduh

Baik… telinga dengar saja
Semua perintah ku junjung
Biar… hati calar-balar tetap bersabar
Ganasnya cintamu

Selalu sungguh hatiku mengeluh
Entah kenapa masih setia
Tragis oh tragis bertemankan sadis

Mungkin kerana sayang
Ku tidak menentang
Gelengan pun dah menjadi angguk
Tragis oh tragis bertemankan sadis

Mata tak terpejam
Mencari apa yang kau mahu
Tapi mulut ku berdiam
Tak mahu bergaduh

Baik… telinga dengar saja
Semua perintah ku junjung
Biar… hati calar-balar tetap bersabar
Ganasnya cintamu

A GREAT PIECE

One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.

He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision.

The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.

The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "none".

The director asked, " Was it your father who paid for your school fees?" The youth answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.

The director asked, " Where did your mother work?" The youth answered, "My mother worked as clothes cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.

The director asked, " Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?" The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.

The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.*

The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands.

His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.

The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.

This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.

The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: " Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"

The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'

The Director asked, " please tell me your feelings."

The youth said, Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done. Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.

The director said, " This is what I am looking for to be my manager.

I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.

A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the kid instead?*

You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done.

"Even writers need relief from words."

-oh, that's a relief~ :)
err, i 'm considering myself as a writer..can i?

mirror

"Facing a mirror you see merely your own countenance; facing your child you finally understand how everyone else has seen you."

Social Network

just watched this movie.. yeah, a little late..
and i was struck..
i want a brain like Mark Zuckerberg too~

little house on a prairie

emm, i want to write about this next..

Little House (on the Prairie) is a series of children's books by Laura Ingalls Wilder that was published originally between 1932 and 1943. it is based on decades-old memories of Laura Ingalls Wilder's childhood in the Midwest region of the United States during the late 19th century. At the beginning of this story, Pa Ingalls decides to sell the house in the Big Woods of Wisconsin, and move to the Indian Territorynear Independence, Kansas, as there were widely circulating stories that the land (technically still under Osage ownership) would be opened to settlement by homesteaders imminently. So Laura, along with Pa and Ma, Mary, and baby Carrie, move to Kansas. Along the way, Pa trades his two horses for two Western mustangs, which Laura and Mary name Pet and Patty. When the family reaches Indian Territory, they meet Mr. Edwards, who is extremely polite to Ma, but tells Laura and Mary that he is "a wildcat fromTennessee." Mr. Edwards is an excellent neighbor, and helps the Ingalls in every way he can, beginning with helping Pa erect their house. Then, Pa builds a roof and a floor for their house, digs a well, and the family is finally settled. Around this time, the Ingalls family becomes terribly ill from a disease called at that time "Fever 'n' Ague" (fever with severe chills and shaking) which was later identified to be malaria. Mrs. Scott, another neighbor, takes care of the family while they are sick. Mr. Edwards brings Laura and Mary their Christmas presents from Independence, and in the spring, the Ingalls plant the beginnings of a small farm. At the end of this book, the family is told that the land must be vacated by settlers as it is not legally open to settlement yet, and Pa elects to leave the land and move before the Army forcibly requires him to abandon the land. The next book, On the Banks of Plum Creek, reveals that they have moved to Minnesota.

Listen

Listen to the song here in my heart
A melody I start but can't complete
Listen to the sound from deep within
It's only beginning to find release

Oh, the time has come for my dreams to be heard
They will not be pushed aside and turned
Into your own all 'cause you won't
Listen

Listen, I am alone at a crossroads
I'm not at home in my own home
And I've tried and tried to say what's on mind
You should have known

Oh, now I'm done believing you
You don't know what I'm feeling
I'm more than what you made of me
I followed the voice you gave to me
But now I've gotta find my own

You should have listened, there is someone here inside
Someone I thought had died so long ago
Oh, I'm screaming out and my dreams'll be heard
They will not be pushed aside on words
Into your own all 'cause you won't
Listen

Listen, I am alone at a crossroads
I'm not at home in my own home
And I've tried and tried to say what's on mind
You should have known

Oh, now I'm done believing you
You don't know what I'm feeling
I'm more than what you made of me
I followed the voice you gave to me
But now I've gotta find my own

I don't know where I belong
But I'll be moving on
If you don't, if you won't

Listen to the song here in my heart
A melody I start but I will complete

Oh, now I'm done believing you
You don't know what I'm feeling
I'm more than what you made of me
I followed the voice you think you gave to me
But now I've gotta find my own, my own